December has arrived in St. Louis, bringing the first snowfall and those cold, early-dark evenings that beg for extra layers and hot drinks. It’s the time of year I’ve heard described as the quiet months or the sleepy season — a phrase that perfectly captures the slower pace winter offers. And instead of slipping into the December doldrums, I’m embracing this time for what it can be: an opportunity to slow down, get cozy, and find inspiration in the stillness.
For me, this season of life feels quieter in a different way, too. As a midlifer with two daughters in their 20s (and no grandchildren yet), the holidays have shifted. Gone are the years of juggling endless obligations and a mile-long to-do list. Instead, my household looks a little different: two fur babies (dogs) and a cat round out our family, and my 23-year-old daughter (she’s on the tail end of living with me so I’m soaking it up) and I are making the most of our simplified holiday plans.
But here’s the thing: I’m not sad about the change. I’m embracing it. There’s something freeing about creating a holiday season that works for you, without feeling weighed down by what you “should” be doing.
My December Joy List
This year, I’m leaning into activities that bring me peace and joy. Here’s what’s on my December bucket list:
- Visit the Missouri Botanical Garden’s Garden Glow: There’s nothing like walking through twinkling lights on a crisp night to fill me with holiday cheer. Bonus points for ending the evening with a seasonal cocktail at Planter’s House (or Sippin’ Santa, it’s December alter-ego!), a cozy St. Louis bar that goes all out with holiday decor.
- Movie Nights with My Daughter: Nothing beats snuggling under a chunky blanket with my daughter and our fur babies to watch Elf for the hundredth time. Comfort movies feel extra special this time of year.
- Cookies, Soup, and More Cozy Cooking: The kitchen is my happy place in December. Whether I’m trying a new soup recipe (Marry Me Chicken, anyone?) or baking up a storm, the act of cooking feels grounding and joyful.
- Manifesting and Reflecting: As the year winds down, I’m carving out time to deep clean (because let’s face it, nothing feels as good as a fresh start) and to think about my goals for the next year, the next five years, and beyond. Call it manifesting or dreaming big—this is the season to set intentions. Check out these deep cleaning and intention setting guides! Pro tip: Start with questions, not goals.
- Playing in the Snow: When the snow arrives, I’m not just shoveling it. I’m planning to bundle up, go outside, and let myself play. It’s a reminder that there’s still magic in the mundane. Checkout Winterfest by the Arch and Hidden Valley if you’re in The Lou.
- Connecting with Friends: December is also a time to check in with loved ones, whether it’s meeting up for a cup of coffee or sending a heartfelt message to remind someone they’re on my mind.
How You Can Embrace December Joy
If you’re looking for ways to find inspiration and warmth this season, here are some ideas:
- Simplify Your Holiday Traditions: Ask yourself what traditions bring you joy and which ones feel more like obligations. It’s okay to say no to the latter.
- Create Cozy Moments: Light candles, grab a warm blanket, and make your space feel like a retreat from the cold. Even a small act, like making tea or cocoa, can set the mood.
- Get Outside: Fresh air is a powerful mood booster, even in winter. Bundle up for a walk or just step outside to take in the crisp, quiet beauty of the season.
- Reflect and Dream: Set aside time to think about your goals and intentions. Journaling or making a vision board can help you turn your dreams into plans. Here’s a 5-minute journal!
- Cook or Bake Something New: Try a recipe that feels indulgent or nostalgic. Cooking can be a creative outlet and a way to show yourself (and others) some love. Here are 78 of Good Housekeeping’s favorites.
- Find Inspiration in Small Joys: Whether it’s watching snowflakes fall, listening to holiday music, or curling up with a book, let yourself savor the simple pleasures.
Resources for the Season
Here are a few resources to help you make the most of December:
- Missouri Botanical Garden’s Garden Glow: Event Details Here
- Planter’s House December Sippin’ Santa: Find Details Here
- Cozy Blanket Recommendations: Here’s a great weighted blanket
- Favorite Soup Recipe: Marry Me Chicken soup recipe here
- Journaling Prompts for Reflection: Click here to learn how to ask questions vs. set goals
December doesn’t have to feel heavy or overwhelming. By leaning into the quiet moments and creating your own traditions, you can make this season one of peace, joy, and inspiration. Here’s to cozy nights, meaningful connections, and finding magic in the stillness of winter.